Welcome, I’m Chris Barker

Mindfulness Coach

Shrinking the stress and growing the happiness in your life

Adult Mindfulness Courses

Stuck in a rut, a resignation that life will never change? Mindfulness shines a light on our ingrained beliefs and habits and provides tools to unlock an alternative way of being. 

Mindfulness for Cancer

NHS treats the physical, but what about the emotional and mental well-being? This is the role of Mindfulness for patients and carers.

Mindfulness for Teachers

With the number of interactions per day second only to Air-Traffic Control, no wonder teachers get stressed! Mindfulness helps restore balance.

Workplace Training

Mindfulness is used by many leading global companies, including Google, Apple and Ford. It can help your business, big or small!

Mindfulness for Teenagers

Transitions in life, 24/7 social media, family, friends, fear of missing out, school – all can be huge stressors. Mindfulness can provide an anchor in changing times.

Find Your Inner Gourmet - Mindful Eating

Exploring the ‘why’ of eating, more than the ‘what’. This is an alternative approach to traditional dieting, working gently with the underlying causes to create lasting change.

Mindfulness for Performance

Stars of sport, stage, public speaking as well as those engaged in creativity in the arts, design and engineering can all grow in performance with Mindfulness . 

1 to 1 Sessions

Tailored to your personal needs and intentions, at a time and place to suit you, 1 to 1 sessions can make Mindfulness accessible.

What is Mindfulness and how does it work?

Mindfulness is an experience, rather than a concept, so there is no point in me giving you an academic definition. I describe it like finding the eye of the storm, when everything around you is swirling intensely, but you have a space where it is calm. You know that sooner or later, you will be re-immersed in the wind and rain that can be life sometimes, but for this moment you can stand back and observe it. This allows you a breathing space to make skillful choices of what to do next as you have a clearer perspective of what is happening around you.  

1. What do you do on a mindfulness course?

 A series of attention-based practices such as noticing the breath, scanning attention along the body, becoming aware of sounds and thoughts. There is also discussion following each of these practices, which people often say brings great personal insight to unhelpful habits and routines.

2. Isn’t it just Buddhism in disguise?

Contemporary day mindfulness is secular, no religion involved. Jon Kabat-Zinn wrote the contemporary mindfulness programme (MBSR) in 1979 after his travels in the far east, where he experienced Buddhism. He specifically designed contemporary mindfulness to be free of religion, so it could be used in westernised institutions such as hospitals and schools, where no religious bias would be tolerated. The courses I lead are all non-religious and non-Buddhist.

3. I can’t see myself meditating or doing that yoga stuff!

Neither could I! Some people call it meditation, others call it practice. Basically, you sit still in a chair, on cushions if you prefer, sometimes even lying down. You have a focus like the breath and simply observe it, whilst following my guidance. There are some mindful movement exercises, a few of these are like basic yoga moves. They are easy to access and require no specific fitness. These can be adapted to your physical condition, so everybody can take part.

4. But I am really busy, I won’t be able to fit it in, I have enough to do already!

This is the most common statement I hear, you are not alone! When I came to mindfulness in 2012 I was ferociously busy, but that is exactly why I came. I thought, I cannot carry on like this, there must be more to life. You are the most important person in your life, you need to give a bit of time back to yourself. This is counter-intuitive to how we are brought up, but if you are happy and well, you will bring positivity to every aspect of your life. If you are stressed, burnt-out or fed up, you will bring the opposite to your life, including to your loved ones. A bit like the oxygen mask principle on an aeroplane, you need to look after yourself first, so you can help others.

5. It’s just a fad, here today, gone tomorrow.

The NHS don’t think so! Mindfulness was approved as far back as 2004 by NICE to treat patients with recurrent depression and other uses such as managing chronic pain are being carefully considered. We know how much scrutiny NICE brings to treatments before approving them. Contemporary mindfulness has been increasingly globally accepted since 1979 and you can now even study it at post-graduate level at Oxford, Cambridge or like me at Exeter University. It is now considered a science.

To remain with the weather analogy, when it is sunny and warm, Mindfulness allows us to pause and really soak up the sun’s rays, enjoying the warmth that it brings to us. Too often in life we skim over what is enjoyable, not really bathing ourselves in it, but instead thinking about what we must do next. We can often find that intrusive memories triggered by, say, a song or even a smell mean we re-live the past over and over. Alternatively, sometimes we pre-live the future by endlessly planning or worrying about it; Mindfulness can break this cycle. It allows us to be more present in the here and now, a powerful antidote to constant ‘doing mode’ that we can subconsciously slip into, always on the go, no time to rest, always striving for the next chapter in life.

About Me

I have been practising Mindfulness since 2012 and have found it has brought a calmer and more open perspective to my life. Having taught in schools for 20 years, I initially introduced mindfulness to teachers and pupils using my training from the Mindfulness in Schools Project and TeenYoga.

My recently completed two years of post-graduate studies with The University of Exeter Clinical Psychology Department has enabled me to expand my work to adult populations impacted by anxiety, depression, stress and other conditions. I currently specialise in supporting those living with and beyond cancer and other life-threating conditions.

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Testimonials...

‘Made me feel less guilty about concentrating on myself and putting myself first for a change, giving myself some space, also helped me to control myself and any feelings better’

– Joan 

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‘I found the sessions so helpful; I’ve discovered a calmer outlook. I feel more in control, able to observe my feelings and emotions, be curious about how my body acts / sense body sensations’

– Rachael 

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I took an eight-week mindfulness course last year with Chris at quite a stressful time, and I enjoyed our sessions immensely. It was an opportunity where I felt safe to try something new, where I grew and where I learnt to appreciate life so much more. All of that was facilitated by Chris’ lovely, caring, and compassionate guidance. I’ve been lucky enough to watch Chris work with young people as well and am always astounded by how well he can truly connect with everyone I’ve seen him meet. He’s a great mindfulness teacher and I can’t recommend taking a course with him enough.”

– Holly C

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‘Chris was very good, he has a very calming voice and always has a smile, and is very supportive and reassuring’

– Juliet 

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‘Chris was brilliant! Very supportive, calm and clearly very knowledgeable. Felt in good hands and he managed and facilitated the group really well’

– Roxanne 

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‘It was very nice hearing other’s difficulties, knowing that you are not alone with your feelings and anxieties’

– Sam 

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‘I have been listened to and helped, and supported, and been very welcomed and reassured. This has helped me boost my ego and how I think and feel about situations that arise. I am more calm in myself now, and the stress has eased, probably because I have learnt different ways of coping with it now. I still have down days, I still feel bad about myself, but I try my best to deal with it using the tools I learnt over these last 8 weeks. It’s been very enjoyable, and I would like to thank Chris so much for allowing me to be part of it’

– Sarah 

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‘I really enjoyed my time on the course and feel more balanced. I now have more tools to deal with my workload and stressors – but also a deeper appreciation of the good stuff’

– David 

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‘I was apprehensive I could make it work at home, having the quiet space and the time etc. I have been pleasantly surprised that it has been possible, and an unexpected benefit has been that attending the course while at home, the practices and mindfulness are not separate to home’

– Annabel 

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‘Thank you Chris, I feel so much better to ‘let go’ the things in life that used to stress me out. I always knew stressing doesn’t help but didn’t know how not to – now I do!’

– Steve 

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‘Flexibility of when and where the course was. Busy family life and job made this important’

– Erica 

My latest mindfulness blogs

Savour, don’t waver!

A country walk in the crisp autumnal air, kicking through fallen leaves of auburn, gold and amber, complete with a flask of hot chocolate. Sitting on a bench watching the curls of steam arising from the shiny silver cup, the aroma awakening the taste buds, rich,...

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Stick or Twist?

To stick with what you have or to twist and take a new card – a question from our endless games of Pontoon as a child. As lockdown restrictions ease, the possibility of returning to my old habits and routines arises, so this is a question that I have been asking...

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Difficult 2020? – Tools for 2021!

If 2020 has demonstrated anything, it is that the only certainty in life is uncertainty.So, what are the practical tools that could help deal with this?This morning I listened to the news on the radio which left me feeling anxious and a little overwhelmed. Later,...

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You are unique. I would like to listen to you, your story and your intentions…

Who is Mindfulness for?

If two or more of these statements ring true with you, please get in touch:

  • From the moment I wake up to the moment my head hits the pillow, I just don’t seem to stop.
  • Even when I am doing nothing, the thoughts in my head are still racing.
  • I worry about things and then realise afterwards that I didn’t really have anything to be concerned about after all.
  • If I hear a song that reminds me of something in my past, I quickly find that my mood changes, on occasions for the rest of the day.
  • I don’t always listen to others properly and can sometimes snap at them.
  • I jump to conclusions, before I really know all the facts.
  • I am stuck in a rut and have been for years, but just cannot seem to find a way out.

I would be lovely to talk to see if mindfulness can support you...